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9 - FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT - GENTLENESS
week’s destination: FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT - GENTLENESS
This week we’re going to learn about "Gentleness”
Paul tells the Philippians’ “Let your gentleness be evident
to all.” Philippians 4: 5a
Photocopy the Bible Verse and 6 footsteps cut them out prior to
class. Photocopy Fruit Flash Cards. crayons. Dolly. 2 hard boiled
eggs, 2 spoons. Breadfruit and Super Fruit handout one for each
AS KIDS ARRIVE PRIOR TO THE LESSON
Get the children to colour the Bible Verse Card, footsteps and colouring
pages prior to the lesson.
Remember when your Moringa was just a small plant, how gentle you
needed to be with it or branches would break off and you could damage
(Hold up an egg) Eggs are also very fragile and can easily
break you have to be very gently when handling eggs.
1. GAMES: (10 minutes)
Hold your hand behind your back “Guess which hand I am holding
2. TEAM GAMES: (10 minutes)
Split the group up into two teams. Split each team into 2 and position
at opposite ends of the room or field.
Explain to the children they have to be very gentle to balance
the egg on their spoon and run down to the other group, they then
have to very gently hand the egg and spoon over to the next child
who runs down to the far group and repeats until everyone in the
team has run with the egg The first group to finish wins.
3. ACTIVE PRAISE CHORUS (10 minutes)
Optional: View ‘Fruit of the Spirit Gentleness’
music video using lyrics visual aid
4. INTIMATE WORSHIP (5 minutes)
Optional: View ‘Softly and tenderly Jesus
Optional: Play and sing ‘Suffer the little
children’, using music sheet and lyrics
a. “Back Track” Review
Optional: View ‘You are so faithful’
For the past few weeks, we have been studying the fruits of the
Spirit. Can anyone name all the fruits of the Spirit, or tell me
what verse we find them in? (Galatians 5:22-23)
Last week you learnt about "Faithfulness” God is faithful.
He took the first step in your Salvation, He called you into fellowship
with his Son, Jesus. He is not going to abandon what He started.
He will bring it across the finish line because God is faithful.
Even if we are unfaithful or faithless, He remains faithful.
b. Sword Play
Ready…Swords up… Titus 3:2b… CHARGE!
“Always be gentle toward everyone.” Titus 3:2b
Use the Bible Verse Card as visual aid. Place the footprints on
the floor in order and get volunteer to come and follow the footprints
saying the verse out loud, remove the first footprint and repeat.
Then remove another footprint repeat. Until there are no footprints
left and the children can recite the verse.
c. Teach the Lesson (15 minutes)
Gentleness as a Fruit of the Spirit is an outward action but it
comes from a person’s inner attitude – being humble.
Some might think that being gentle is a sign of weakness, but the
truth is, it is “God’s power used in love.” When
we are motivated by God’s love, then surely we can give a
gentle answer in any situation and it brings the peace of God to
whoever gets to hear it.
“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs
up anger.” – Proverbs 15:1
Bible Story: (1 Samuel 25)
David and his friends were in the Desert. While they were there,
they were kind to the shepherds who were with them in the fields.
Those shepherds were servants of a rich but foolish man named Nabal,
his wife was named Abigail.
When it was time to shear the sheep, David sent some of his men
to Nabal to ask him for a gift which he would be kind enough to
give, considering that David and his men helped protect his sheep
in the fields. Instead of giving a gift, Nabal insulted David, and
this made David so mad that he planned to kill Nabal in revenge.
When Abigail heard about this, she acted quickly and wisely. She
gathered food and other supplies and went to David to make peace
With kind and gentle words coming from a humble heart, Abigail helped
David to see it would be wrong for him to kill Nabal. She asked
for forgiveness in behalf of her husband and through her careful
gentle words, David’s heart was changed. Read 1 Samuel 25:
When a meek or humble person decides to speak to an angry or highly
emotional person, his initial goal would not be to prove who is
right or wrong, but simply to show respect and kindness, even if
the other person is using very hurtful words. This kind of gentleness
is something that comes from the Holy Spirit, and to attempt to
do it using only our own human abilities would be futile. It takes
time and prayer and allowing the Spirit to mould us in order to
bear His fruits.
Even in correcting others, the Bible tells us to do it gently –
because God calls us to be humble and recognize that none of us
Therefore, we leave it up to God to judge; our role is to encourage
one another and to be gentle and kind and most of all, to pray that
God will touch people’s hearts and bring them to repentance
and belief in Jesus Christ so that they might be saved.
Gently pick up dolly and start to rock her in our arms. Do any of
you have a baby brother or sister? (Allow time for them to respond.)
How do we handle babies? (Allow time for response. Continue
to rock dolly) Babies are fragile. We have to be careful with
them. We are never rough with babies because it will hurt them.
We treat them with gentleness. God desires for us to be gentle in
our actions, our words, and our attitudes!
Jesus models gentleness to us by calling all of those who are tired
and suffering to find rest in Himself. He gently leads us, like
a Shepherd with His sheep. (Show Shepherd colouring Bible Verse)
6. APPLICATION / ENCOUNTERING GOD
Have a time of silence. Ask the following questions: Is gentleness
a part of who you are right now?
Do your words show gentleness or are they harsh? Do you show gentleness
with your actions?
Are you a protector, a listener, a comforter to your friends and
Let’s ask God together to grow the fruit of gentleness in
our hearts this week. During your prayer, thank God for His gentle
way with us, for His son, for it is only through Him that we can
be changed and produce the Fruit of the Spirit.
Remember the specific situations your children are going through.
Invite them to share afterwards their needs. Praise God for the
Fruit of the Holy Spirit, the gentleness we are able to have because
He lives within us and for His great gentleness to us.
TAKE HOME PAGE
Give one ‘Take Home Truth’ and Super Fruit handout one
for each family. Remember to check your Moringa, can you measure
and see how tall it has grown? Take a picture with you standing
next to your Moring tree, next week we will have a prize for the
Breadfruit contains moderate levels of essential vitamins and minerals
the Breadfruit Leaves also have great healing powers such as lowering
blood pressure, it’s great for inflammation, preventing cancer,
cardiovascular disease, kidney disease, and much more.
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